Dear Sasha I’m a young gay male with an odd kink, insofar as I’m not even sure if it’s physically possible. I call it “double fucking.” What I mean is that it isn’t double penetration, but rather when a guy fucks another guy while simultaneously being fucked back. Sort of an anal 69, if it makes any sense. I’ve found some really hot art on the Internet, but I’ve never seen it done by anyone in the “real world”, so I’m curious: Can it be done without serious injury? Is there a term for it? 

—When Life Takes You Up the Ass, Fuck Back

Dear When,

I called Priape’s Toronto store to see if they had any films with the double sodomy theme.  Michael, the manager, said though he (and everyone at head office, which he called on your behalf) had heard of this act, they had never seen it on film. This suggests it may be really hard to find because Priape has access to all adult distributors and as Michael says,  “That definitely sounds like it would be one of the selling features of a porn.” It was unanimously agreed that if anyone had physical evidence, we’d all very much like to see it.

Michael relayed a FOAF (friend of a friend) story to me where someone he knows saw two men doing it live, but that’s the most we can offer at this moment. Any leads readers? I’m sure I can scare up an appropriate prize for a solid one.

Dear Sasha I’m a 36-year-old transsexual looking for more information on hormone therapy. I’ve been living as a female since I was 14 years old, and there is not much on this dilemma around here. I’ve been trying to get in touch with someone to talk to other than my therapist and doctor. They are hopeless right now.

—Charleen

Dear Charleen,

I don’t know what you mean by “around here,” but let’s assume it’s somewhere remote where you don’t have much access to current written material by or about people going through hormone therapy despite the fact that you’ve been living as a female for 22 years.

What you need to do for now, since you apparently have Internet access, is get online and find pals. There are so many transgendered women who keep extensive journals about their every step to womanhood and you’ll find some of them, along with links galore here: www.transgender-blogs.com/transgender-canada and many more here: community.livejournal.com/transgender/. You can also reach out to friends by setting up your own blog, even on MySpace. It’s super easy, trust me—if I can do it you can too. Lynn Conway’s got a pretty interesting story and a strong network. Check her out at http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/people/conway/conway.html. Like so many marginalized sexual communities that require complex medical therapy—I’m thinking of women with vulvar disorders too—transpeople have found an excellent collaborator in the Internet and they’ve done a fine job putting up information that covers the personal, the political and the scientific.

GOOD CHEMISTRY

And hey guys, have you been on the lookout for some tasty straight porn? Those clever folks at Vivid Video have got Tristan Taormino working for them and she’s done a fine job with her first feature, Chemistry (as I write this, Chemistry 2 is coming down the pipe).

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