Dear Down and Dirty,
Have a look at this gang bang page on Carol Cox's website: http://new.wildrose.net/forum/viewtopic.php?t=464&highlight=gang. Carol is a longtime swinger whose popular site has detailed her adventures for 11 years. She will be launching a new adult community site at www.adultlifestylesnetwork.com anytime now, a great networking space.
"Although I am completely bisexual," she e-mails me, "I do enjoy the occasional multi-men gang bang. We started doing these a few years ago, just for fun. I like to keep it down to a more manageable four or five guys though, as when you have more than that, it can get difficult."
Carol's husband Danny is the one who sets everything up. "He finds the guys, and as part of our play with this, I don't know who will be there until I actually meet them when we start. Danny is selective and picks men that he knows fit the profile I like. They need to have pictures, answer some basic questions, and they also need to tell him what they want to do. He then makes the selections based on that brief information. We never meet where we will be playing, but in a public place. This gives people the chance to back out if they wish, and gives me a chance to see what I am getting. I can veto anyone. From there, we move to our offices/studios where we have a play area set up. We have never had a problem with any of the men, and in most cases, I have had a very enjoyable time."
Carol says if you are serious, you're welcome to contact her (carol@carolcox.com) for more details.
"I was invited to my first gang bang about 10 years ago and there were two things I noticed," says Michel, a respectful, sweet, self-described ordinary white professional by day. "The first is when the guys didn't know each other, it was not obvious that you would have the right chemistry. Some guys took up too much space, others were so shy they put the others in an awkward mood. In order for the experience to be good for everyone, it's good for the guys to know each other so they can form a team, so people can anticipate needs and get the chemistry flowing." This prompted him to form the Quebec Gang Bang Brothers, along with the fact that it's typical to expect that 50 per cent of the confirmed men won't show. "Among those who do show and are inexperienced," he continues, "about 50 per cent won't get hard because the presence of other naked men in a sexual context freezes them." Michel says this wouldn't be such a problem if men relaxed, had a sense of humour and didn't treat the event like it was the Olympics.
He has a process of screening and preparation that takes up to six weeks and now generally works only with his core group of five men - all free of charge, by the way. Consent is extremely important to him, and generally, if you are interested in filming, members of his group will ask for their own memento. "If I can speak just for myself, I love when it's filmed because I love to have a database of the life and times of Michel," he says. If you're interested in setting something up, his e-mail is quebec69xxx@hotmail.com.
